Dean: Mommy, I don't like lamb.
Me: How do you know? You haven't tasted it.
Dean: I did taste it.
Me: Really? What's it taste like then?
Dean: (Thinking)...Chicken.
(That kid cracks me up.)
And then later on before bed:
Cary: Mommy, when kids go to sleep, do parents leave?
Me: No. We just go to bed.
Cary: You don't drive away?
Me: No, honey. We're too tired. We just go straight to bed.
Cary: OK, Mommy. Don't leave!
And...now you know why I can never go on a date with my husband and leave the sleeping kids with a babysitter.
P.S. Happy, happy, happy birthday to my Dad! He turns 61 today. (Such a young man!)
As proof that I have always been a Daddy's girl, here is a poem I wrote for my Dad when I was a teenager. I can't remember how old, but this was clearly during those tumultuous years when I was aching for more freedom and he was shutting. it. down. We fought a lot then -- but you can tell from this poem (unearthed somehow by my sister last month) that I very much missed him.
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| ("Dumb Company" was the name of my imaginary friend when I was a little girl Yes, I had an imaginary friend. And he was "dumb," not because he was stupid, but because he couldn't talk. Duh!) |
My Dad will always be so big...so big...in my heart.


When I'm done wiping tears from my eyes, I will tell you to MAKE TIME FOR YOUR DAD. You are so lucky to have him and so lucky to love him. CALL HIM.
ReplyDeleteHappy Happy Birthday to your dad!
How brave of you to put that poem out there for the whole internet to see. Really. No, I'm serious, that was REALLY brave of you. So brave...so brave.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday, Tanika's dad! :)
And yeah, Tanika, you can never have date night again. I've decided we won't ever be able to either (more for logistical reasons), so I've resigned to buying a pool table for our basement. Wanna come over?
Just read Beth's comment, and now I feel like a schmuck.
ReplyDeleteBut only a little. :)
I do second the sentiment though.
That is so sweet! What a beautiful poem. Happy Birthday to your dear Dad! My dad is one of my favorite people in the whole world - I wish he and my mom lived next door to us (on the other side, since you & Lester will be moving in on the one side!!!:)
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